Leaving Your Married Lover - Sex Q&A

Yes...I believe he is right....some people will never be able to allow the bliss, the suffering to enter their lives...
I have known it and he is right.


Leaving Your Married Lover - Sex Q&A

Soul Agreements - Their blessings and challenges

Soul Agreements - Their blessings and challenges

Shield Yourself From Negativity - Psychic Workout

In my healing work I have to make a conscious effort to not let other people's problems, hurt, negativity affect my life. This is a constant battle ....I hope this article might help other's who are struggling too.

Shield Yourself From Negativity - Psychic Workout

Soul Friends - How to recognize them

Soul Friends - How to recognize them

I absolutely adore Liam!

I am sharing his post today because I happen to agree wholeheartedly!

I have struggled through three marriages now, and I'm in the process of separation from the third. I have been unhappy in them all in the end. I want my freedom, but I also want that great love that never seems to be found. Is there hope for me? Is there truly someone for everyone, or will I now stay single for the rest of my life?







Liam's Response:






Greetings, Ms. Kay. Your situation is not at all uncommon, and the disillusionment you feel is part of the modern condition of human emotion in relationships. In Western culture, we have this peculiar notion of entitlement, or cosmic right, some sort of divine edict that promises every one of us a passionate, loving, and above all monogamous relationship with plenty of health and wealth and happily-ever-afters for one and all. Now we know the natural world works quite differently, but we're all a bit spoiled, seeking magical answers and spiritual fixes to nature's foreboding reality.






You speak of love so lightly, as if it's just something you get--like a prize for being a good girl. Let me tell you that true love is a perilous business, full of heat and viciousness. It's not something everyone experiences--many simply can't because they are sensually dead, numb to the point of nonexistence, rebelling against the reality of love's dangerous and delicious grasp.






You wish a great love, Kay? Then you must be willing to feel great pain. For that is most often the price. To invite love, you need to delve into more poetic modes of thinking, and that means less text messaging, less Entertainment Tonight, and more literature, even the ballet now and again. Your diet of over-processed foods has to change. You must disregard the mind for the body, and get in touch with your physical self with the help of yoga, dance, and exercise. Mostly, though, you have to forget about obtaining love for yourself in order to obtain happiness. Love doesn't bring happiness. It brings sheer joy and blinding ecstasy. It also brings desperate despair, even hatred. And no matter what, Love is always about that other person. Not yourself.






Concentrate on others for a time. Forget about what they might bring to you and start focusing on them as interesting beings in their own right. Focus on their feelings, hopes, and joys. Try to see other people as invitations to adventure, each person a new universe waiting to be explored. In dating, disregard all those checklists you have of what you need or want out of a mate and simply take an interest in another person's experience. I'm not talking about you meeting Mr. Right. I'm talking about changing your perception, and thus your world. We walk before we run. But when we run, we fly.




Be well Kay,

Liam

I've been away for awhile.....

I'm on a quest to find something of great value...I think it has to do with my life path and I ran across this today:

I LOVE this , I hope you do too.



Reason, Season and Lifetime



People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.


When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.


When someone is in your life for a REASON,


it is usually to meet a need


you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.


They have come to assist you through a difficulty,


to provide you with guidance and support,


to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.


They may seem like a godsend, and they are.


They are there for the reason you need them to be.


Then, without any wrong doing on your part


or at an inconvenient time,


this person will say or do something


to bring the relationship to an end.


Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.


Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.


What we must realize is that our need has been met,


our desire fulfilled; their work is done.


The prayer you sent up has been answered


and it is now time to move on.


When people come into your life for a SEASON,


it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.


They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.


They may teach you something you have never done.


They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.


Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.


LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;


those things you must build upon


in order to have a solid emotional foundation.


Your job is to accept the lesson,


love the person/people (anyway);


and put what you have learned to use in all


other relationships and areas of your life.




It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.




~Author Unknown

From Jonathan Cainer,,,HUH????

I'm fascinated by a news story from Ahmedabad, India, about an 82-year-old gentleman called Prahlad Jani. He's been under observation in Sterling Hospital, under the care of neurologist, Sudhir Shah. This is the second time Dr Shah has studied Mr Jani. Back in 2003, when this gracefully bearded holy man was a sprightly youth of 75, Mr Shah also kept him under 24-hour surveillance for ten days. Mr Jani, it seems, practises the ancient art of inedia. He does not eat or drink. Ever. Apparently, he's lived for 70 years on nothing but air and meditation.


Can this possibly be true?

hmmmmm....

Possible????

The Indefinite Particle Friday, 9 April 2010  written by Jonathan Cainer
Subatomic particles are funny things. Invisible, mysterious and erratic. Scientists are now smashing them together in The Large Hadron Collider in an attempt to reveal secrets of the universe that might radically change our understanding of the world. It may even allow us to rewrite the rules of time. Apparently, they don't intend to get the Collider up to full speed till 2013. Meanwhile, the 'long count calendar' of the ancient Mayan civilisation 'runs out' in 2012. Some say this signifies the imminent end of time as we know it.' I wonder if these two events are connected?

Pluto

Pluto turns retrograde today for months...time to face your past.

Pluto rules Sex, Reincarnation, Power Struggles... Reconnect with the people who have shared important life events with you! You have something to share with each other.....

and...

The Large Hadron Collider has been switched on again in Switzerland. For over a week, tiny subatomic particles have been crashing into each other at great speeds. Yet, so far, these have neither created a black hole, nor corrupted the fabric of space and time, causing us to slip into a parallel universe. But, then, a parallel universe is a world almost exactly like this one, in which just a few key factors are different. If we did pass through such a portal, we might not even know. If you have noticed anything strange lately, perhaps this is why! ----Jonathan Cainer

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my motto of the month: Live and let Live!

bits and pieces

Tonight the Full Moon in Libra will make for an interesting night in the ER...I expect ODs and lots of anxiety ...

The moon is full in my fourth house of home and family... I'm feeling the urge to re-decorate or move....make some major changes...and THAT produces anxiety for me...:)

On a happier note...Sam Bradfords' pro day was a super success!! He is going to have a long and brilliant career in the NFL!

YAY Sam!  Congratulations!

oh no!

and the hits for Sandra Bullock just keep on coming!

11 women now have come forward regarding Jesse James...11...what he's trying to out Tiger, Tiger?!

Listen, I fell in love with my own Jesse James ( I'll call him Mr. X)..I know how it feels..he was a fabulously talented Director of Photography, living his life going from one movie ot tv set to the next. He was honest to god, to-die-for handsome, think a cross between Antonio Bamderas and Steven Seagall...I know but, this was the 90's and yes he had a ponytail. My X was charming, affectionate and so sexy he could, well, he was sexy!

He could have any woman he wanted and did. He was single when I met him and he had me at hello.

We fell in love so hard and fast, the only time that has ever happened to me. Trouble was there were lots of women in love with him and unbeknownst to me he was already engaged to one...sigh...long story short, he broke my heart. Shattered it actually.

But, I think now, with the perspective of time, that it all comes down to value systems.

My value system was completely different than his.....he wasn't trying to hurt me he was simply being true to himself.
It didn't make us care for each other any less and I like to think he still thinks about me often...I was important to him. And, much later, I was told he thought he wasn't "good enough for me".

So I hope Sandra, and all women.. myself included...look for someone whose morals and value systems are similar to ours.

Life is about cycles and change....we can't change anyone but ourselves. We are all different, be true to you!

men...

Today would have been the "King of Cool" Steve McQueens' 80th birthday! Wow... Hollywood just doesn't have men like him anymore..today's leading men?...all seem like little boys.

And...I know what I'm talking about....:)

Casting for film and tv for so many years...the leading men in this decade from fey, androgynous Robert Pattinson to charming "goofy" George Clooney...Tom "ahem" Cruise...maybe Russell Crowe has come close, but really???

Nobody like McQueen.

McQueen typified the iconic loner, Marlboro type, super sexy man that all women want....sigh...where are all the men like him?

ok...here goes!

I've put this off for days...I'm scared to start writing...but, have to jump off the abyss some time, so here goes!

What is it with men and women these days?

Is cheating on the rise or because of the internet we hear about it constantly?

I have never been married and I must confess...why bother?

Really?? Why bother??? Can no one stay faithful these days?

From that plastic man Tiger to disgusting Jesse James...to the guy you think is perfect for you
and promises he is "going" to get divorced (yeah right!) or worse, the guy who doesn't bother to tell you he's married!

I don't know...I'm feeling so ...lost...what is the bond that keeps some people together? And. will I ever have it?

Well...enough for my first post.....not meant to be a downer...the divorce news these days is just so discouraging.

Meanwhile...I, unlike Bridget Jones, am happy in my singledom. Just would like to meet a HOT, SINGLE MAN!!

Universe.....are you listening?

J

introduction...

"The life, the fortune, and the happiness of every one of us, and, more or less, of those who are connected with us, do depend upon our knowing something of the rules of a game infinitely more difficult and complicated than chess. It is a game which has been played for untold ages, every man and woman of us being one of the two players in a game of his or her own. The chessboard is the world, the pieces are the phenomena of the universe, the rules of the game are what we call the laws of Nature. The player on the other side is hidden from us. We know that his play is always fair, just, and patient. But also we know, to our cost, that he never overlooks a mistake, or makes the smallest allowance for ignorance." - T. H. Huxley

Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get, it's what you are expected to give.....which is everything.