Yes...I believe he is right....some people will never be able to allow the bliss, the suffering to enter their lives...
I have known it and he is right.
Leaving Your Married Lover - Sex Q&A
Sunday, August 29, 2010
Friday, August 27, 2010
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Shield Yourself From Negativity - Psychic Workout
In my healing work I have to make a conscious effort to not let other people's problems, hurt, negativity affect my life. This is a constant battle ....I hope this article might help other's who are struggling too.
Shield Yourself From Negativity - Psychic Workout
Shield Yourself From Negativity - Psychic Workout
Thursday, August 19, 2010
Sunday, August 15, 2010
I absolutely adore Liam!
I am sharing his post today because I happen to agree wholeheartedly!
I have struggled through three marriages now, and I'm in the process of separation from the third. I have been unhappy in them all in the end. I want my freedom, but I also want that great love that never seems to be found. Is there hope for me? Is there truly someone for everyone, or will I now stay single for the rest of my life?
Liam's Response:
Greetings, Ms. Kay. Your situation is not at all uncommon, and the disillusionment you feel is part of the modern condition of human emotion in relationships. In Western culture, we have this peculiar notion of entitlement, or cosmic right, some sort of divine edict that promises every one of us a passionate, loving, and above all monogamous relationship with plenty of health and wealth and happily-ever-afters for one and all. Now we know the natural world works quite differently, but we're all a bit spoiled, seeking magical answers and spiritual fixes to nature's foreboding reality.
You speak of love so lightly, as if it's just something you get--like a prize for being a good girl. Let me tell you that true love is a perilous business, full of heat and viciousness. It's not something everyone experiences--many simply can't because they are sensually dead, numb to the point of nonexistence, rebelling against the reality of love's dangerous and delicious grasp.
You wish a great love, Kay? Then you must be willing to feel great pain. For that is most often the price. To invite love, you need to delve into more poetic modes of thinking, and that means less text messaging, less Entertainment Tonight, and more literature, even the ballet now and again. Your diet of over-processed foods has to change. You must disregard the mind for the body, and get in touch with your physical self with the help of yoga, dance, and exercise. Mostly, though, you have to forget about obtaining love for yourself in order to obtain happiness. Love doesn't bring happiness. It brings sheer joy and blinding ecstasy. It also brings desperate despair, even hatred. And no matter what, Love is always about that other person. Not yourself.
Concentrate on others for a time. Forget about what they might bring to you and start focusing on them as interesting beings in their own right. Focus on their feelings, hopes, and joys. Try to see other people as invitations to adventure, each person a new universe waiting to be explored. In dating, disregard all those checklists you have of what you need or want out of a mate and simply take an interest in another person's experience. I'm not talking about you meeting Mr. Right. I'm talking about changing your perception, and thus your world. We walk before we run. But when we run, we fly.
Be well Kay,
Liam
I have struggled through three marriages now, and I'm in the process of separation from the third. I have been unhappy in them all in the end. I want my freedom, but I also want that great love that never seems to be found. Is there hope for me? Is there truly someone for everyone, or will I now stay single for the rest of my life?
Liam's Response:
Greetings, Ms. Kay. Your situation is not at all uncommon, and the disillusionment you feel is part of the modern condition of human emotion in relationships. In Western culture, we have this peculiar notion of entitlement, or cosmic right, some sort of divine edict that promises every one of us a passionate, loving, and above all monogamous relationship with plenty of health and wealth and happily-ever-afters for one and all. Now we know the natural world works quite differently, but we're all a bit spoiled, seeking magical answers and spiritual fixes to nature's foreboding reality.
You speak of love so lightly, as if it's just something you get--like a prize for being a good girl. Let me tell you that true love is a perilous business, full of heat and viciousness. It's not something everyone experiences--many simply can't because they are sensually dead, numb to the point of nonexistence, rebelling against the reality of love's dangerous and delicious grasp.
You wish a great love, Kay? Then you must be willing to feel great pain. For that is most often the price. To invite love, you need to delve into more poetic modes of thinking, and that means less text messaging, less Entertainment Tonight, and more literature, even the ballet now and again. Your diet of over-processed foods has to change. You must disregard the mind for the body, and get in touch with your physical self with the help of yoga, dance, and exercise. Mostly, though, you have to forget about obtaining love for yourself in order to obtain happiness. Love doesn't bring happiness. It brings sheer joy and blinding ecstasy. It also brings desperate despair, even hatred. And no matter what, Love is always about that other person. Not yourself.
Concentrate on others for a time. Forget about what they might bring to you and start focusing on them as interesting beings in their own right. Focus on their feelings, hopes, and joys. Try to see other people as invitations to adventure, each person a new universe waiting to be explored. In dating, disregard all those checklists you have of what you need or want out of a mate and simply take an interest in another person's experience. I'm not talking about you meeting Mr. Right. I'm talking about changing your perception, and thus your world. We walk before we run. But when we run, we fly.
Be well Kay,
Liam
Monday, August 9, 2010
I've been away for awhile.....
I'm on a quest to find something of great value...I think it has to do with my life path and I ran across this today:
I LOVE this , I hope you do too.
Reason, Season and Lifetime
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part
or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something
to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered
and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON,
it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
those things you must build upon
in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person/people (anyway);
and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
~Author Unknown
I LOVE this , I hope you do too.
Reason, Season and Lifetime
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need
you have expressed outwardly or inwardly.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrong doing on your part
or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something
to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered
and it is now time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON,
it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn.
They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
those things you must build upon
in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person/people (anyway);
and put what you have learned to use in all
other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
~Author Unknown
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